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Sex and relationships columnist Valerie Gibson would call them "cougars" -- women who date men more than eight years their junior -- and they're part of a trend that's coming off the screen and out of the bedroom. Gibson says the term originated in Vancouver, British Columbia, as a put-down for older women who would go to bars and go home with whoever was left at the end of the night.
But now, it's more positive -- describing women usually their in 30s and 40s, who are financially stable and mentally independent and looking for a younger man to have fun with. Gibson, who is single but has been married five times -- the last time to a man 15 years younger -- describes cougars like herself this way: "She's in control. She's very attractive. And she's very sexy. The National Association of Retired Persons released a survey in revealing that one-third of the single women between 40 and 60 are dating younger men.
But they didn't say how much younger.
Comedienne Fran Drescher, 47, said the trend might be due to increased self-sufficiency among the fairer sex. That opens up "a much wider pool to choose from," Drescher said. Self-described cougar hunters, year-old Jeremy Mape, who works in commercial real estate in San Francisco, and year-old Mark Lobosco, who is in software sales there, say they like the confidence and sexual experience of the cougars they know -- and the fact most are not looking for commitment.
They even created a Web site, www.
Many older women also look great, said Mape. And you can't tell the difference," he said. In "Kept," a group of something American men will compete to become an escort to Jerry Hall, 48, for the next year. Hall was famously married to rocker Mick Jagger, with whom she had four children. The oldest are nearly the age of some of their mother's new suitors. Hall said if one of her sons said he was going to go out with a woman 15 or 20 years his senior, she would tell him, "Pay attention.
You might learn something. Hall said her role on "Kept" will be to teach the guys what she likes. I think there is a toy boy out there for everyone," she said. But the cougar hunters thought differently. Mark and Jeremy said they didn't feel like kept men. Despite their apparent popularity, cougar relationships can be difficult. Drescher described an evening where her boyfriend John invited his dad and stepmom to her house for dinner.
I went running to the closet to put some tie-dye on," Drescher said. The biggest hurdle for May-December relationships, Gibson said, is the cougar's lack of interest in, or inability to have a baby. And for people who would condemn the cougar's behavior as creepy or inappropriate, she said "I don't see these condemnations as valid.
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